I can understand your concern and unhappiness - while I can see why someone discussed the incident with you, I'd have expected them more to be trying to find out what happened, not just pointing fingers. (And I'd think that by now you'd proven you don't need micromanagement. *sigh* I hate bureaucracies.) You certainly aren't to blame for her actions after being upset.
I'm not really hugely surprised at the classmate's comment, though, since we don't live in Tom Smith's Rocket Ride - the times when we thought villains fought by rules seem to be long gone. *sigh* (I thus disagree to some extent with Gary below - I don't think it was someone using "rape" to cover a case that wasn't rape; I think that the student assumed that's what would happen because, after all, bad guys don't act honorably.)
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Date: 2011-11-05 03:13 am (UTC)I'm not really hugely surprised at the classmate's comment, though, since we don't live in Tom Smith's Rocket Ride - the times when we thought villains fought by rules seem to be long gone. *sigh* (I thus disagree to some extent with Gary below - I don't think it was someone using "rape" to cover a case that wasn't rape; I think that the student assumed that's what would happen because, after all, bad guys don't act honorably.)